Monday 11 July 2011

Task #2

Topic Discussion : University is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner. Agree?

Deadline :- Friday,15th July 2011 5pm.

50 comments:

Nasruddin Shah said...

I strongly disagree with the topic discussion that university is the best place for students to find their future life partner apart from study simply because university is a place to study not to flirt around looking for partner.University is a place for students to gain knowledges and also a platform for students to improve their skills and performances through numerous tasks and projects assigned for them.In order for students to excel themselves in university,they need to maintain their grades throughout the semesters.Students need to focus on their assignments and pay full attention to what they have learned aside from doing a simple revision.Obviously,this requires a lot of time to be spend by them.Time management is very important during this period.Students who spend their time looking around for partner tend to neglect their full attention to study and carelessly spend their precious time with not-so-sure husband/wife to be.If students already set their minds to find their life partner in university apart from study,they are potentionally to loss their focus on study and cannot concentrate on what they are learning because their minds are filled with things related to their partner for example topics to be discuss during their lunchtime together,ways to become more attractive to their partner and such.It is very clear here that study should not be mixed with unappropriate things like looking for future's life partner as it will just making their grades down significantly.Thus,I strongly disagree with the topic discussion that university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner.

Nurul Afifa said...

Indeed, i agree with Nasruddin shah opinion.University is definitely not the place for students to find their future life partner. As all of us know, university is the place for students to enhance their knowledge and get the qualification for applying jobs in the future. It is one of an opportunity that students should not misuse it by chasing love that is unrequited. Love sometimes give more bad effects compared to anything. First and foremost,it is really obvious that the students grade marks in exams will effect completely as they have no time for study rather than just sitting around with their partner,eating together, go for a walk and doing more things that are inappropriate.Not to mention, if students are in love and he or she have a fight with their love one, it will totally effect their studies. They will be depressed, moody, and felt pressure.Sooner or later, that students will totally lost their focus in the class,creating more and more problem such as skipping class,not completing the assignments and so on to succumb their pressure.I strongly believe that students are not matured enough in dealing in problems like this.This problem are very serious as love can change the students main objective in entering the university. Students should realize that there are still too young to think about their future life partner and they should focus more on their studies and not to mixed studies with other things that unnecessary.So,i think i had clearly stated the reasons on why i disagree with the topic discussion which is "university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner".Thank you.(^_^)

~AinSuzianie,, said...

Based on our discussion topic,i totally agree with this topic that university is not only the best place for the students to study but also to find their future life partner.This is because i have seen a lot of married couple is based on their love which are most of them started durind their university life.Frankly speaking,the age of university students is what people called it as the "age of flirting".During the age of 17 until 25 years old,everybody has the feeling to have boyfriend or girlfriend.So,during they are in their university life,they can meet a lot of people which they will have many choice of choosing their future partner life.In addition,they may choose their partners based on the criteria that they are interested in.Not only that,they also will have the enough time to get to know their partner very well to have a more serious relation such as get married.However, they should give their full attention in education in order to maintain the excellent results in every examination.For me,get falling in love will not effect our study as long as we can manage our time and keep our emosion every time no matter what happen.So,i am totally agree with this topic taht university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner. Thank you.

muhammad afifuddin said...

'indeed'the word that i can say about this topic...it's the best time to choose a future life partner..it's the time that we still communicate to many people especially 'future life partner'..in work situation,it's too difficult to find a life partner since we're busy with work...we have no time for that..besides, we can say that we're at a same level..no need to shy to another although our spm result not as well as another student..i also think that our future mother in law doesn't care about our spm results...so,here at uitm puncak alam is the best place we can find a future life partner...;p

ctsarah said...

i'm also agree with nasy..university is not the place for student to find their life partner.i firmly believe that student will not focus their study if they found their life partner there.it is proved because i had look this just only a few month i studied here.they fall in love just about only two weeks..so weird!maybe ain is right,students are in the age of flirting right now.but they must straightly focus for their study first.if they are not focus,they maybe neglect their study and so many more that related to study.in fact,they can be rejected by university if they fail in examination.so,for me,i'm fully disagree that university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner.

Arif said...

I strongly disagree with the topic. Absolutely university is a place to study. It is not a place to find life partner. Students will not concentrate in their study as the busy with their "life" partner. If they are caught in seclusion they will be expeled from the university. It will be such a waste as the great student had been expelled because of this things. So for me,i'm 99.55% disagreed with the topic.

Nasyrul Hafizi said...

Finding life partner in university? This topic is quite interesting for me to answer. It is a popular topic that we always hear when we enter the collage. However for me, I think that it is not good for us to get involve in love when we are still a student. Yes, there might be some of you would disagree with me, but as you can see if we are trying to find a life partner here, of course we will lost our focus in our studies. This will cause us to left behind in our study and it will affect our examination result to drop as we do not focus toward it.. We also will become irresponsible student as we will forget to do our assignment, quizzes and many more.. We also must remember the main focus, why our parent sent us here. of course they want to see us graduate from this university with flying color and to see we excel in our life, right? So for me, I don’t want to disappointed their hope toward me..

hazlin said...

Based on my opinion,I agree with the statement stated that university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner.Frankly speaking by the age of this,students in the mood of flirting.Everyone will have a feel to have a boyfriend/girlfriend.In this case,I dont think that by finding 'future life partner' will effect our studies.Its depend on us how to manage it by not disturbing our studies.Without no doubt,by having a couple,students can make a study discussion together with their partner and they can also compete between them in any examinations and tests.Definitely students will feel shame if they get marks lower than their partner,so indirectly,they will struggle to achieve full colours in their next tests.Consequently,by having time together with their patrner in long period time of studies,they will know each other and surely they know that both came from educated background and compatible each other that will ensure their bright future soon. Inshort,university is the best place for students in educations as well as to find their future life partner because students are already matured to determine their own goods.

AREMIER ANWAR said...

In my opinion, I Disagree with the title of this second task of the university is not only a place to gain knowledge but can also be the place to find life partner.This is Because its name is the university so it is a place to learn to acquire knowledge and not suitable to find life partner.Moreover, student who is seeking life partners in universities will have Difficulty in Dividing the time between study and accompanying their lover and will cause these students fall behind in their own self Studies. Next, these student will lack of time to review the lesson learned and lead the average grade dropped or failed in the exam and will have Difficulty in completing assignments given by lecturers. Furthermore, it will also increase at the social cases in the university, such as adultery, rape and others.

najwa said...

I did not agree with the topic. this is because university is a place to study not to find a future partner life.student should not get in love while studying as they could not manage their time wisely when they get in love. Other than that, they also might not focus in their study as most of their time had been waste with their partner doing unnecessary thing.they also will lost their focus in studying especially when they are having a fight with their partner.next,our parent surely disagree if their children get in love while studying as they do not want to see their children failed in their studies.. moreover, we still can find our future partner life when we had already get a job. as conclusion, i totally disagree that university is the best place for students not only study but also to find their future life partner...

syafiq baharudin said...

=( I am not agree with this topic. As we know, university is the place for study. I repeat, place for study. So, we have to study a lot than fall in love at the university. Such a waste if we fall in love in the university. There is no benefit at all. My mama always told me that i have to focus on my study. Not fall in love or playing around. I don't like to make my mama sad. So, I think that if we fall in love in the university, this problem wil effect our study. Many student ignores their tutorial,assignment etc because of this big problem. LOVE. So, as the UiTM Puncak Alam student, I am very disagree with this topic and I hope that all my friends focus on our study.

Wangzy said...

Maybe my answer is different from all, I do disagree with the topic discussion that University is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their life partner. This is because the aim we're in University is to study to have a good career in our future. So, finding our future life partner is not a good thing there. But, the thing that is not good is when they really focus on it. Because this will lead to stress when they're arguing with their partner, they can't meet up, they jealous with their partner and etc. This is because for some couple, their future life partner acts as people to release stress, acts as people to share problem, acts as motivator, and acts as people that they can rely on when in trouble. So, in conclusion is that on how their partner acts as. If their partner acts in good way which can be useful for he or she, then it's good to find future life partner. Otherwise, it's not good. Thats all from me. Thank you.

Nuruddin Rusli said...

Based on my observation that I have search out in this UiTM.Most of the students have a bad lifestyle.They are in an open social wich is there are no one can forbid them from making any illegal thing.So,I disagree that University is the best place to find their future life partner.Besides,students also cannot concentrate on their studies,especially when they are falling in love.In my other opinion,there are nothing wrong if the students make a relationship with one another in order easy for them to make a discussion or study group.This is because normally,they are really need others perspective and opinion to accomplish on their certain work such as to settle down their assignment,tutorials,not and so on.So,students need to make their consideration on what they behave to evade any unpredictable thing happen.Thus,all of these things depend on students’ faith who realize their obligation as a Muslim.bye2..

Ariez Mustafa said...

i am totally disagree with the topic discussion that university is the best place for students to find their future life partner.university is an institution of higher education which grants academic degree in variety of subject.university is the place for students to gain knowledge and the way for them to achieve what they want to be for the future, which absolutely not the place for them to find their future life partner.!."love and addiction".both have great chemistry.for me love can be such a drug but it surely not the same at all for the side effect.it's only about addiction.the person that already have their beloved partner less interest for their study compare to other students.all of these because of the love addiction.sadly, this will effect their achievment.so, why come to university.?.falling in love only takes about a fifth of second.its a fact okay.so, university is absolutely only a place to study.;)

azizul hakim said...

I am not agree with that statement.As we know university is a place where we get a knowledge.This is because the university is place for study.we just only need to focus on what we learn not to find our future partner.Moreover we are still young to think about it especially about future partner.we don't have to think about it because it will come to us one day.Besides that,we also don't have any job to bear our live cost.As we know,went we fall in love with someone,we will use more money for top-up our mobile to stay connected with her/his.From that we will waste our money in such a horrible way.So we must concentrate in our study and let the love come by itself.

najmi amin said...

Are we talking about "COUPLE"...? I don't know why people always questioned about the relationship in this young age. Do we really need love very intimately from someone who is "said" to be our future husband / wife,even though we still have parents and family members for us to love..? In my conscience, I really disagree that University is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner. Matchmaking in the hands of God. We are not qualified to decide our own mate, except Allah .. That is true that there is NO advantages in love while we are still student. This is because, as long as we are called students, we definitely don't have fixed income to support our life. Students who is in love always spend much money to reload mobile phone for messaging, calling and others. This made a lot of money has been consumed for love than study. So, it's doesn't mean that you are now studying in UiTM by using pocket money given by MARA. MARA are support you to study here and not to enjoy life with your "future partner". Last but not least, students who are in love is waste time. Students are should focus in study.. not to focus in love.. ~expressions from my heart~ TQ.

sanusi said...

University is a place for study and to find your future life partner? I'm totally disagreeing with that statement.For me, university is like an ocean of knowledge, experience and also a place to unlock many high level information.It is not a place for students to make love because once you have fall into love's trap, you will remain lost for a long time.Furthermore, students might forget their true purpose, that is to gain knowledge and it will automatically affect their performance.Besides that, loving would also cost lot of your money and waste your time as well.

Muhammad Aqil Zulkifli said...

For university is the best place for students to study, I’m totally agreed with but for university as a place to find future life partner, strongly disagree. Some students think they can do well in study if they in relation with someone but truly only small proportion of them can do that. Even they can, I’m sure their relationship will not end with marriage. Come on buddies, life is much longer before the time for we get married. No need to get so rush on finding future life partner. Maybe you want to take a look on what type of life partner you would like and match your soul for the future but for a serious relation at early age like this, really not good start for university students. We need to focus on our study rather than bordering our mind thinking how to make someone get in love with us and the way to make our mate feel pleasant. In other perspective, we as a Muslim are needed to control our limitation in relationship between someone that not our ‘mahram’.

suhail said...

unfortunately, i have to disagree. although most students especially guys think that when they are in university, its the perfect time to be in a relationship, but actually its not. university is the place where you gain knowledge, a place to achieve higher education and strive for excellence. when you are studying at university level, its not the time to fool around like find dates, couple, girlfriends or boyfriends. this is the time where you have to focus on your studies, complete the tasks given to you by lecturers and maintaining a good pointer throughout the semester. you also have to keep on improving yourself and achieving good results on each test. furthermore, its not the best place to find a life partner as it will interrupt you on your studies. once you have a partner or a couple, you'll have to allocate time for her/him. thus, this will lessen the time that could have been used for studying. besides that, having a partner when you are in a university may also affect your focus to study. an example would be when your partner seeks for your attention, maybe he or she want to talk on the phone with you, and its late at night.as a partner, you have to accompany him/her. this will disturb your sleeping or resting time. as a result, you will feel jaded the next day. in conclusion, having a life partner is not really a good idea when you are studying at university level unless you are good at allocating time for your partner and for studies.but it depends on each individual as they know what is best for them. the results may vary for each person. thank you.

shahir said...

For me, I to totally disagree with the discussion that university is the best place to find their future partner. Although, university is different from schools, we as a university student cannot take this as an opportunity to involve in love. We mustn't t take for granted the purpose of studying in the university. We have to focus in our study to get a better result for a better job. If students fall in love when they are still studying, they will have a disappointed result. This is because they tend to lose focus in their studies. They will spend more time with their loved one. In addition, students who fall in love also tend to do some crazy things. For example, they willing to starve to buy a “top up” daily in order to call or message their loved one. Such a waste of money… Next, their personalities also will be much differ from before. Some of them tend to wearing a nice attire all the time in order to look handsome or lovely in front of their couple.

baldikosong song song said...

In my opinion,I totally disagree that university is the place to find our's future life partner.The reasons I do not agree because our main job at the university are to study and get as many as possible knowledge so that we can get enough experience and knowledge.The experience and knowledge we had gained are important because we will apply it during we works.Beside that,as a Muslim we are need to control our limitation during in a relationship with somebody.We need to focus on our study compare to think about somebody who we do not sure he or she will be our's husband or wife.Next,our's goverment right now every years give us allowance to make sure next generation have enough knowledge to manage this country more efficiently.So we as a student who will lead this country in the future must always stay focus during studying.So I strongly recommended a person who think that university is a place to find future life partner to think twice before make any decisions :)

Fitri Naufal Mansor said...

'Couple is trouble but single is simple'.Coupling can make us stress.Based on my research,the person who are coupling always want to see their partners every moments.So,how about their study?I am sure that they cannot focus in study.Actually university is a place where we need study and compete with other students to get better chance to have bright future.Saying about future,I think we must have good jobs and also good salary.When we have all that criteria,many girls will come to us.This is the best time to find future life partner.University is a place where we need to struggle studying to achieve good results.It is a beginner point to us.We must to handle properly in order to succes in life.As a conclusion,I don't agree university is the best place for finding future life partner.

Amirul Anwar b. Mohd Solong said...

I totally agreed with this topic discussion. In my survey, most of married couple were met in the university. Event my parent also met in a university at Australia. Even taught I also agree with the other who disagree this discussion. It’s true that university is the best for study, but this normal life for students fell in love with other just like someone I know. The term ‘find’ in the discussion I infinitely disagree. The married couple not find each other, but they met, understand and get to know each other by having a study group or group presentation or group discussion. Conclusion, university are the best of both study and search future life partner.

FAHMI said...

I'm definitely disagree with this statement. University is place for study, not for searching life partner. The way of study in university is differ comparing to school because in university, we have to be independence and if we lost to control ourself, we will failed in our study. Clearly we don't need to have a partner in university and it's not important for us . We must thinks how to get an excellent result in test or exam than think to have a life partner in university. Besides, if we have life partner in university, our money will be spent on her or him. Our parents give money for us to spent for our own need. But, if we have life partner, I am sure we will use the money to buy top-up for mobile to connected with her or him everytime. Besides, we will use the money to buy a present for her or him. It really waste our money! It also effect our time management. As you know, if our life partner have problem, we must accompany her all time, talk on phone with her or him until late midnight. It will affect our study. We will feel sleepy and cannot give full concentration to the subject that we learned. We have plenty of time to find life partner as we build our career and stabilize our financial. AS conclusion, we don't need life partner in university. Study is more important. We don't have a alot of time to play around. THANK YOU :)

AqibZ said...

I totally disagree about the topic mentioned.For me,as a students,studies should always come first because love can happen after finish our studies and get a good job.Love maybe come when we are 60 years old.Next, love is something that can be describe as drugs.So, students will be more easily lose their focus in their studies after fall in love.Love is blind and this will effect their studies because love is related with our heart.When their emotion unstable, their focus will fade and make them more lazy.Besides that, study can confirm our future while love cannot lead to a better future, and nothing.Students also must remember about what their parents have sacrifice for them.So, students should forget about LOVE and begin to give 100% in their studies.Thus, there is nothing important about love than study in the university, and LOVE IS PATHETIC!

fakhrul said...

I really do not agree with the statement because the university is the first step of a person to achieve their ambitions. In addition the university is a place where we encounter many people who are more intelligent than we are. So we should take this opportunity to learn from them rather than spend time with the love that does not give any meaning. We should feel fortunate to be able to enter university. Many people want to pursue but did not get a chance. So we should appreciate the opportunity by study hard. When we love we had to divide time between study and our spouse. This would indirectly reduce the time to study. Next, we will lose focus on learning as we always remember that someone we love. We do not have harried looking for love because love will come by itself after we success in our life. Thank you

Qurra said...

An intriguing topic indeed. In my opinion, yes, it’s true. I agree with Amirul Anwar who said that most married couple these days met during the time that they were studying i.e. during study groups’ discussion or lectures. Several people on the other hand commented that finding love during studying for a university student is unacceptable, a little too early or too rashly done and etcetera. However, spare me some of your time and chew on this, is there even a rule that says there is only a specified time in someone's life that allows him or her to fall in love, and, can someone actually avoid falling in love just because they are afraid of disrupting their studies? Besides, isn’t it a basic knowledge that humans whether male or female, yearn for that ‘right’ person. This is especially true in the case of university students’ who are still experiencing the metamorphosing phase from being identity seeking teenagers towards their next cycle of life i.e. more matured young adults. After all people, a university is not only a place to study and to cram one’s head with notes and facts in preparation for examinations, it is also a place where one learn to grow from the experiences obtained there. Last but not least, couples actually motivate each other to perform better in their studies. At least, the good ones. Still, it is only a matter of finding the right person, which is why time and place doesn’t matter really. Thus, reasons why even while studying, a university’s student can, not only shape his or her future life paths but also able to find the person to travel down the path together as well.

Khairul Anwar said...

As for me,I strongly disagree with the topic discussion.University is the place to learn,study and gain new knowledge.I know that,every student has their own sense of love to someone that they like,but at this age it's not the perfect time to fall in love.This is because,when you fall in love,you might not be able to focus on studies and your time will be waste with your partner.Beside that,the social case will also increase in that particular university.Therefore,single is simple,couple is trouble.=)

Mohamad Amirul Hayat said...

LOVE or STUDY? Definitely I will choose study when I am in university. So, I totally disagree with the statement given. This is because love is like a trap. Once you step on it, forever you will in it. Besides, it is very painful. So, it is not suitable to being in love when you are in university. It will make your live miserable. You need to think about your partner while studying. It is a difficult mission. So, you only need to study while you are at the university. Besides, your family also builds upon on you. Are you remembering what your mother’s advice is at the first day you are here, at the university? What does she said? To be loved or to strive hard in your study? All of you know the answer. I don’t think I need to explain it any further. In conclusion, I hope all of us will excel in study and for the last time, DON’T step on that trap if you want to make your mother proud.

hanifbaharudin said...

I agree with the statement. I believe that university is a good place to find a suitable future life partner as in university, students spend a lot of time in a society where the people are of the same wavelength. They have a lot in common as their way of thinking is the same. Moreover, I think that university is a good place to find a suitable life partner because during the course of studying, the students have time to socialise in contrary to when they have started working. When someone has stepped into the working world, they become really busy and find it hard to get time to think about socialising and searching partners. Also, during one's study in university, one can have variety in picking their future partner as the university holds thousands of students. Otherwise, at work, one can only mingle with colleagues in office. According to the above reasons, I believe that the university is the best place for a student to not only study, but to find a suitable future life partner.

aizaq said...

university is place where you study. it's not the place where you need to looking for you future life partner. i totally disagree about university as the place to find your future partner. when you in love, your academic performance will decrease. it obviously happened nowadays. maybe some people say i can control my self. however, when you get trouble with your partner for sure you will be get stress especially for ladies. they can't control their emotion as good as man.besides, the couple maybe can trap in the unmoral thing because they think they will get marry.my suggestion is don't trouble your trouble until the trouble trouble you. it's enough with the academic problem need to be solve.

suhaimi said...

It seems to me that there should not be any statement such like this one, or in other word i am absolutely disagree with this statement. University is the place for study, not the most suitable place where we should find our life partner. I figure that Hayat was said the truth about love. Love is a trap, once you step on it, forever you will trapped there. I am sure that, nobody can concentrate to their study while they in love mood, so can they success without paying attention in their study? Finally i hope all of us will stand among the greatest Uitm's engineering foundation students. make you parent proud with your exam results not with your beautiful wife.

PROF AFIQ said...

In my opinion I totally disagree with this topic about university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner although many university student think that if they want to find their future wife they should find her in university.This is because when we enter the university the only aim that we want is to study and get better result for our better career.So it is not suitable for student to find their future life partner in university.Moreover if students find their future life partner they had betrayal their parent's hope.Because they sent their son to continued study to make their son become useful in his future.however if we want to find our future life partner we can do it after we finished our study because we still young and have many time to do so.Right now what we have to do in university is to study to make our parent hope become reality.

AZ said...

as for me, i'm totally disagree with a statement which university is the place for study and for looking future life partner. this is because, student might not pay full attention on their studies as they are kept thinking about what are their 'partner' doing and how to 'improve' their relationship.as a human live on this earth. it is normal to have feeling to share love with their mate.but, can we just think a moment? what are the objective and why we are here??how long have you sacrifices for just step in to university?or you can said that" it was along time ago when i'm know nothing about the real and future life".but, obviously students nowadays cannot think further what are the real risk on future they going to face on. it is more worst when a couple having a fight, the they lead to get stressed.it might also ruining students performances in studies.especially for a girl, they cannot control their emotion well.so, it is better for just thinking about studies problem rather than love and we have to reach our goal by being an excel student.

Hanif Mat ZIN said...

yes, i agree with the statement. this is because i believe that university not only the places for study. if we just focusing on study, we will get pressure. we need to enjoy our life at university. yes, i know that our aim to university is to study, however we still need to enjoy our life in different context that is having a future life partner. actually having a partner give much advantages. first, he/she can understand us more than our friend. then, that is a correct time to find a future life partner because on that time we are still young. moreover, it easier for a couple to understand each other because they are in the same age average. likewise if we find a partner after study, we can see that it will be difficult because we are busy with our career. besides that, we can find a partner because we are adult. we can differentiate what is good and what is bad. so, there is any problem if we want to have a partner future life in university if we know to manage our life in university properly. so, i strongly agree that university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner.

Aeussss said...

University is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner. Agree or NOT? Yes! I will tell you that I totally agree with this topic. Why? Don't you think that all of us has matured enough to find a life partner when we studying in university? THINK NOW! for those who disagree. Based on the scientific research, women had matured early than men around 12 years old while men are around 15 years old. How old are you when you continue your education in university? 18 years old or maybe 19 years old right? Think,think and think! Hahaha...To strengthen my opinion, here some explanation from me.how many percent does university's couples married nowadays? Sources from internet stated that it almost 30%. Wow! What do you think? Amazing, right? Many of young people preferred to marry with their partner that they met at university. Don't you believe it? Believe it now! Hehehe..Secondly, how do you choose your future life partner? Take a look at his/her face or just pick up? You must want to know him/her better before choose him/her as your life partner. In university, you can estimate or know someone personality and characteristics based on their commitment on works/assignment or even projects and the way their dressing. You can know that she is very beautiful by looking at her face but has low morale based on her sexy clothes. You can also know he is lazy because he didn't sent his assignment. Isn't it interesting? Furthermore, having a special partner life in university will not influence and interrupt your focus on studies as mentioned in the comment above. but your partner will help to guide and give you spirit to study and can also overcome your laziness. Last words from me, university is the best place for both, study and love. For disagree person, you can changed your mind to AGREE, AGREE and AGREE!!! Still have time, nothing is impossible. Hahaha..

harith pamy... said...

Based on the topic given, I really agree that university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner. The are many reasons why I agreed. First of all, by having a future life partner in same university,they can help each other in their study. It is true like what some of my friend say that having future partner in university will affect their study but it depend on how we couple. Couple can lead us to have good and bad effect based on how we managed it. I remembered on one article in newspaper last year about a couple got graduated together with flying colour. If they can do it, why we can`t be the next students who follow their path, have a future life partner and success in study as well. Future life partner can make us compete on each other to get better result. For example, the one who get lower result need to buy present for the one who win. Surely no one want to waste their money to buy thing for other resulting in trying their best to save money and being appreciated by their partner as well. Besides, the future life partner can help us when we have trouble. They know us better than other, even our parent can not beat them. They keep helping us even they too has problem themselves. The life partner in university can help us to not forgot Allah S.W.T. as university student some doesn`t care to perform solah as they are usually forced by their parent before. once they steps at university, they don`t have anybody to keep remind them. There are surely many benefits why having a future life partner in university is good enough for me and I totally agreed with the statement.

Syafiq Hafizi said...

Base on my experience which is related with the situation in the question given, I strongly disagree with that statement which is university is the best place to find life partner. This is because the purpose of existence of university is only for the student to study. Conversely, there have many student outside there thought that university is the most glorious place to find their partner. In addition, they will tend to only focus for their aim which is to get the most gorgeous future life partner for themselves. Besides, when the student have found their partner, definitely they will spend a lot of time to be with their partner than to study regularly. Indeed, the student who have partner will cause their progress on study become decline especially on their examination result. Without a doubt, the student must realize their responsibility to become the most excellent student to ensure that they can get the greatest job at the future and even to make their family become happy. In final conclusion, I absolutely disagree that university is the most suitable place for student to find their partner as they need to use their time wisely to study to achieve success in their life.

syafiq kamaruddin said...

University is a place for people to further their studies to make sure they have better future.I dont think that, it is also a place to find future life partner.There are many reason for that statement.First,during this period,it is not suitable for student to have another commitment.They should focus and concentrate in their studies.In addition,when student have relationship's commitment,some of the time that is better to study had to be sacrifies.Wouldn't that waste of time?Furthermore,in having a relationship,budget is needed to buy some gift for a certain day like,birthday gift,anniversary, and many more.Why should we sacrifice our money for a partner that is not comfirm to be our's wife.The money that the student invest for their partner are better spend it in thing that is more benefitial.Thus,I strongly disagree with the statement,universities is the best place for students not only to study but also find their future life partner.

Unknown said...

As far as i am concerned, the university is well known for students to gain knowledge whereby it is also the place where students practice their soft skill as well. Therefore, i am strictly and certainly disagree with the statement that students can also find their future life partner instead of studying in university. Well, it seems to be irresonsible for students to disobey their priority which is to study. Apart from that, i'm not ging to say that it is illegal, but to me it has violate parents trustness as well. Apparently, student who tend to find his/her partner while in university, is kinda in his/her world. I mean he /she not really focus in lecture and sort of things. So, i guess it is better not to do many things while working on something else.

Aizat said...

Finding future partner? In the university? Well, this is actually a fun topic to discuss. I personally think that university is not a suitable place for students to find their soul mate. They were too young for making a wise decision to pick the right person. One of the reasons is because much time will be wasted. For instance, instead of going out for a date, they should use their time to do revision or do other things that are beneficial. Their time management will also be compromise. In addition, they will always think about their partner. Without a doubt, they will not focus on their study and they will not give their full concentration during the lecture. Moreover, they will become emotionally unstable if the relationship does not go well or they are having a fight. It will surely affect their grade in the test or exam. In my final consideration, it is unsuitable to find a spouse in the university. There are always times other than in the university to find their life partner. If they are already having a relationship, they should wait until they have graduate and they already have a stable financial base. It is much better.

Syafiq Roslan said...

University as a place to find future life partners. Hmm..don't you think that question is a little bit subjective considering that the fact we may fall in love anywhere, RIGHT? So..which one should i pick? agree or disagree. Well..considering that by disagreeing I would have more topics to elaborate, therefore I'm by here announcing that I strongly disagree on the fact that universities are a place to find our future life partner. Why? firstly of course because it is easier to elaborate, but that is not a strong reason to support my opinion. So, i have chosen to disagree is because university is a place for us to study not to find love. Just think if a student is to find his life partner here, definitely he or she would waste a lot of time with his or her partner. For example, they will eat together, walk together, they will date, and not to mention they may also do something unappropriate. This will definitely effect their studies. Other than that, they may also waste their money for their partner, as example with buying prepaid or giving presents, This will definitely be a waste as they are in need of a hugeload amount of money for their studies. Lastly, I disagree because they might be in a state of depression if they fight for example. This will cause the student to lose focus in his or her studies. In conclusion, considering the facts i had given above, i strongly disagree in the idea of finding future life partners in universities..

unknown said...

I disagree with the topic discussion because our soul mate have already been set by Allah The Creator. It will be just a waste of time if you are busy looking for someone who is suited to you a lot or the perfect one who will pursuit you. Just relax, be friend with everyone in university is enough as a friend does not stop you to make a new friend. Not like a couple, when the relationship getting serious, you would not have chance to have fun with others while doing any group discussions or participate in any college's activities as these activities might make your partner become jealous if something were to happen. Moreover, when you have a couple in university,you will spend most of your time hanging around together with your partner rather than having a good time together with your friends. Maybe you are not feel anything at first, but, once you have left your typical student's lifestyle, you barely to have any sweet memories with your friends. To be worse, if you break with your partner, you will end up having no sweet moments neither with your friends nor your ex-girlfriend/ex-boyfriend. As from religious point of view, university's students are already adults and they can differentiate between good things and bad things. Only faith will determine our life whether it is good or not. Always bear in your mind that you are your family's hope. You should be kind and show to them your love towards your parents first before the others. Just for opinion. Thank You.

muhamad faiz said...

First of all, I disagree with the statement that state university is a place to find our partner life because university as we know is a place for us to further our study.There are some reason why students not recommended to find their partner life in university because first, as students we must concentrate with our study and do not sniff with feeling in love because it will be affect our focusing in study and it is not a right time for us to think about that .Then, we must respect to the place that give us a lot of knowlegde and appreciation.But if we get our partner life in university it is just a sustenance from God and rise your hand and saying Alhamdulillah.

Rusaimi Ruslan said...

I agree with the statement that university is the best place for students not only to study but also to find their future life partner. In my point of view, university can be a good place for a student to find a suitable life partner as student themselves spent most of their precious time to be in society and most of them are in the same level of age, maturity and thinking. They tent to enjoy every second in their university life with people around them unlike the working life which are too much contrast to be compared off. I would say that, in university level, ones can make a detail guideline on how are they to choose a more suitable life partner for themselves. Busy life as working life may lead to massive damage in their marriage since their spouse does not match them really much. Moreover, for a woman, the ideal age to marry is around 23 to 25 years old which mean at their last semester in degree program. Thus, it is important for a woman to find her future life partner. According to above reasons, I strongly agree that the university is the best place for a student to not only study, but to find a suitable future life partner.

Azrul Azahar said...

In my point of view,i disagree with the statement that say university is the best place for students not only for study but also to find their future life partner.This is because if students find their future life partner when they are still studying, we are afraid that it will disturbing their focus on their study.Moreover,I think that not all of the university student are confirm to get their certificate such as certificate of diploma or degree if they are fail in their examination.Another reason why i disagree with the statement is i think that friend is more better than couple. It is because i think that when a student has a partner while they are still studying at university, the student chances of having many friends were lower compared with others.most of another student will afraid to be friend to the student because they are afraid if the student's partner will feel jealous with them. that's all from me.thank you :)

Sa'id said...

Based on my opinion,i'm absolutely disagree with this topic which is university is the best place for student not only to study but also to find their future life partner because it will effect the students focuses to study.Student will waste their time solely for their girlfriends or boyfriends. They also will lost their concentration on studying in class. This is because they are eager send text messages to their partner while in class. In addition they will lost their focuses in class and can not catch up the lessons by the lectures. In addition, students waste their time on weekend as to use for studying. This is because, on the weekend they date with their partner for whole day doing activities that cannot gives any benefits to them. For example, karaoke, watching movies, lunch, and etc. As a conclusion, university is not the best place to find life future partner. Students can later find partner as they have good status.

Farid said...

I did not agree with this particular statement. This is because the university is the place for us to study not to look for a partner. For example, when you are falling in love with someone, you will ignore your study and spend most of your time with your partner. You will waste your precious time just to satisfy your feeling for her/him. The effect of this problem is your study will be far behind the other students. To make the statement true, university is the best place to find friends not partner. This is simply because friends will last forever. Haha..

:) said...

University is the best place for students to not only learn but also to find their future life partner. for me I'm not agree with this statement because if we do two jobs at a time, of course, there will be a forgotten one. in this case, if we are too focused on finding partners, we can easily default in the lesson, and if we love while studying, we would be hard to keep faith couples and at the same time, we need to concentrate on studies. besides, we knew the true purpose of the parents send us to a university is to learn, not to find life partner.

bashiir. said...

University is the best place for students to not only learn but also to find their future life partner. emm, i'm not agreed with it because, for me, i think it will interrupt their's study. Futhermore, they also will be hard for them to focus in their class because i think they will always on cloud nine.Besides, it also will be ruining their bright future, because love will be wasting their time, money and etc. Not all love will be perfect. They might be break up. Thats all. thankyou.